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Letter to My Children

The Architecture of a Legacy

To my children,

At 65, I find myself looking back at a journey that moved from the hospital wards of Havana to the research labs of New York, and finally to the servers where I write code today. I want you to understand that while I changed my tools, I never changed my mission.
The Detective’s Eye (Havana)
It started with your grandfather. At the Hospital Militar Finlay, he wasn't just a doctor; he was a detective. He taught me that every "outbreak"—whether it was a single cook getting sick from tasting raw pork or a soldier sharing a cigarette—had a hidden cause. He taught me to look for the pattern.
The Bridge-Builder (The Linker Arm)
When I became a chemist, I applied that "detective" logic to molecules. In the 80s, we were trying to find leprosy before it destroyed lives. I realized that to see the bacteria, we needed a "bridge"—a linker arm—to show the immune system what to look for. That same "linker" logic eventually helped create the world's first synthetic vaccine. If you are ever asked what I did in Cuba, tell them I built the bridges that allowed medicine to find the enemy.
The Moment in the Kitchen (The GAELs)
In a small kitchen in Flushing, I sat with a yellow notepad and a new challenge: how to kill cancer. I realized that by adding a "Sugar Head" to a "Lipid Tail," we could trick a cancer cell into its own destruction. I coined the term GAELs (Glycosylated Antitumor Ether Lipids) right there. I want you to know that the name "GAEL" still lives in scientific journals today. It is my fingerprint on the world of healing.
From Chemistry to .NET
You might think chemistry and .NET are different worlds, but they aren't. In the lab, I was "debugging" human cells. In the office, I am "debugging" systems. Whether it is a synthetic antigen or a C# class, it is all about the logic of the connection.
My Final Thought:
Life didn't always go as I planned. I had "big plans" for the lab that were cut short by the reality of life and loss. But I am happy — because the GAELs still live in other people's research, the vaccines I helped start are still protecting children, and you, my children, are building your own lives.
The greatest "detective work" I ever did was figuring out how to be a father, and a husband. I hope you carry that same curiosity into everything you do.
With love,
Dad (J.R. Marino-Albernas)

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